New book Launch offer

Don’t let the original issue disappear.

Recognize manipulation when the conversation turns against you—and stay with what actually happened.

A practical guide to 50+ familiar phrases that shift responsibility, create guilt, and make your reaction the problem—with clear ways to respond.

$21 $17

Launch price through September 24

You’re Not Too Sensitive book cover
Inside the new book

Each phrase is broken down into what’s happening, why it makes you doubt yourself, and what to say next—with options for redirecting the conversation, holding your ground, or ending it.

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Permission to Disappoint

The Complete System

See it. Say it. Stand by it.

Three practical guides for recognizing manipulation, responding without over-explaining, and holding your ground when the guilt arrives.

  • You’re Not Too Sensitive
  • 195+ word-for-word boundary scripts
  • The practical workbook
Permission to Disappoint: The Complete System
A note from No More Pleasing

Most boundary advice ends at “say no.”

This work begins with why you doubt yourself—and stays for what they say next.

Built from the conversations that keep showing up in the comments, in the DMs, and in your head three hours later.